Toxic relationship

Hi my name is Susan. I have a relationship with my boyfriend two years ago. I think that my relationship is very good, I’m feeling cheerful and confident with him, but people around me said that he has a possessive behavior, he is a controlator and they think that he always tells me what to do.

Really, I have seen strange and violent behaviors when we don´t have the same opinion, and he shout up me but he apologizes and I don´t see a change. If I don´t tell about it with them, I will be insane. I´m confused and afraided. I´m not sure of anything help me please! 😟

Our tip 

Hi Susan! If we were you, we would break up with him. Because you have cheked that the people's opinion around you are correct. We think that you should trust in them, but more in yourself, in your feelings.

Your mental healthing is more important than a relationship. We understand your situation because we know that your boyfriend is a significant piece of your life, but you should put your wellness above all. If you go off how he is with you, you will let him. 🙆

Fake friendship

Hi I’m Italo. I study sociology at ICESI university and I’m studying fourth semester. A professor asked us to write an essay about Karl Marx and this was an important work because represents 30 percent of totally grade. The problem began when my best friend, George, asked me to help him about the essay because he was worried his low grades in this subject, so despite that I shouldn´t, I lend my essay to George with the condition of changing some words. The day of delivery, I discovered that George sent my essay to everybody. Then, the professor told me that I was in trouble because somebody told him that I had cheated.
I am in a dilemma; If I betray George, I will lose his friendship and if I don´t betray him, I will lose the subject. What should I do? I´m confused and blue. Help me, please! 😪😫😭

Our tip

Hi Italo. If we were you, we would betray George because if he were your real friend, he
wouldn´t do that. Moreover, you shouldn´t risk your grades for a bad friend, you trusted him and he betrayed you. Sometimes you can´t risk important aspects for people that aren´t worth it. If you let the situation like that, he will do it again and you will feel disgusted, annoyed and let down.

So, get away of your mischievous friend and you shouldn´t worried, we are sure that you will find good and real friends. Do the right thing!💓